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September 13, 2010

What Does It Mean to Be Poked on Facebook?

I was doing some research yesterday and stumbled across this question that people were asking. What does it mean to be poked on Facebook? I laughed out loud…a long time! There were more than 1,000 people asking this question!

Well, it really is no mystery as to what “poking” on Facebook means. It just means you poke them. Just like if you walked up to someone at the grocery store and took your finger and poked them. It’s a way of saying hello to your friends on Facebook.

Once you poke someone, they have the option of poking you back or ignoring your poke. When I was growing up the guys would “swap licks” which meant they would take turns hitting each other in the arm with their fist until someone finally said “uncle!” Poking can work in a similar fashion. You poke someone, they poke you back, you poke them again, they poke you back….gets a little monotonous doesn’t it.

You can only poke a confirmed friend, so you can’t go around poking just anyone. And can only poke you if your account is confirmed. Someone poked me several weeks ago, but I didn’t respond, so it’s still on my home page that I have been poked. I can choose to ignore it, which I have obviously done, or I can remove it, which I will probably do.

And just to clarify conformed means that you have to confirm the email address that you set your Facebook account up with and that will enable you to send messages, write on your friends’ Walls, post in discussions, poke, tag your friends, comment, join groups, and fan pages, and basically use your account to it’s fullest.

I guess it could be fun to poke someone, but I really don’t know why. If I want to say Hi, I’ll just go to their Wall or send them a private message and say Hi! But for the thousands of people who have been anxious to get the real story on poking…you have it now.:) And please don’t poke me, I have tender arms!

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9 Responses to “What Does It Mean to Be Poked on Facebook?

    It’s interesting that I think that people are using Facebook poking less and less since Facebook have introduced new ways for friends to engage with one another – for example sharing links, commenting on status and application usage.

    The “meaning” behind the Facebook poke really is depends on the relationship between the sender and recipient.

    D. Offer

    That was interesting Facebook Messages, the part where you said it depends on the relationship. lol!
    I think nowadays, poke isn’t that as useful because if you want someone to notice you, message them or write on their wall.

    avatar scott says:

    Yeah, that’s all very well..but what if the person poking you is an ex you’ve just broken up with really badly and that person just hasn’t even had the courage to inform you personally except via e-mail? What significance does a daily poke take in that case?

    avatar Anne says:

    Poking on fb is just a friendly gesture or even a flirting tendency from friends.

    avatar Christoph Samson Lodestar says:

    A friend of mine has poked me more than five times and still when i back poke her,she still poke me but we have not even chat with her since we became friends,now what does it mean?

    avatar Jossie says:

    What if we dnn’t tlk and tht person poked me its a boy,what do he mean?

    avatar D.Christian Brown says:

    I poked five persons and they insulted me. so what is really the essence of poke?

    What if i loved that person then i poke her and she doesnt poke again

    avatar Daniel says:

    Where I grew up poking could be friendly or a little more sinister. A bully might poke you to let you know you have been singled out for special attention later on for example. So poking is not always just about saying “HI!”

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