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June 10, 2008

Focus On Building Yourself A Qualified List Of Customers Who Are Eager To Hear From You

Your primary focus as an Internet marketer should be on “permission marketing”* and not be quick sales!

Sure, you can set up a website with some great content and plaster it with banners and links to pages that pre-sell products and then link through to the products themselves.

You can even succeed in making a nice little income this way, provided you are driving enough targeted traffic to your site.

But how much of the traffic drives off again without a trace, never to return?

And how many of the people who do click through and buy the product return to you to buy again?

If your site is well designed and targeted then it is quite possible that some people will return and buy again.

But, how much better would it be if instead of trying to get people to part with their cash as soon as possible, you actually focused less on the quick sale and more on building a relationship with the customer?

By focusing on your prospect’s need for trustworthy advice you would stand a much bigger chance of turning your prospect into a life-long customer who trusted you, was eager to hear from you and bought your recommended products time and time again.

Sounds great, doesn’t it?

Here is a list of the steps you need to take to move towards a method of marketing that places the customer’s needs at the centre and turns the relationship into a dialogue rather than a shouting match!

1. Focus on gaining people’s permission for you to contact them about their needs.

Do this by making a squeeze page (or several) and also by adding a form to each page of your website. Include an incentive for people to sign up, like a compelling free report about stuff they need to know but haven’t seen elsewhere.

2. Link the form on your page to your autoresponder, which has been pre-loaded with a series of messages that will now go out to the subscriber.

3. While you might like to include a link or two to your products, don’t over-do the sales at this stage of the game. Instead, remember that you have not yet won your reader’s trust.

What you have to do in the early stages is set up a dialogue and also provide useful services and recommendations.

To do that, your email newsletters should be packed with useful information that is written in a lively and personal manner and focuses on the customer.

Also, provide free resources, tips and information that are genuinely useful. Don’t be afraid to include links to sites other than your own – subscribers will appreciate your generosity and return for more.

4. From time to time make your subscribers a new opt-in offer. Give them a good incentive and require that they give your some more information that you can use to focus on their needs more closely.

Those who opt in will be transferred from the first to the second mailing list.

The second list will be your more powerful list of clients with whom you have developed a stronger relationship of trust and who will be eager and happy to hear your offers.

That is the list you make your money on in repeat sales and sales of your primary products and services.

But remember, it is also the list you must look after most assiduously. The subscribers on the list have learned to trust you and building trust online with your customers is the key.

If you are tempted to sell them short at this stage for a quick profit, you will soon find that you have succeeded in undermining your credibility and your hard work will have been wasted. Remember, you are seeking to build a long-term relationship of mutual benefit, so don’t muff it by succumbing to short-term greed.

I have only described a couple of stages of this “permission marketing” model.

Moving your customers “up the permission-marketing ladder”* is the key to success. It does not have to be just a one-step move. You can implement several steps, each one moving the customer relationship to a higher and more personal level.

The role of sub-niches is also important here. As you talk to your list and invite a response, you should also be prepared to place different responses on different lists at the higher level.

With fewer subscribers on each niche list, you now have the opportunity to get to know each customer more personally and open up several lines of 1-on-1 dialogue with subscribers who are now repeat-buyers.

Because they have moved up several rungs of the permission-marketing ladder you know a lot more about them and are now in a position to offer them exactly what they need, and they are in a position, based on experience to trust your offers and enjoy your mailings.

They are customers who are eager to hear from you and willing to buy from you, so treat their trust like gold-dust.


*See Seth Godin’s “Permission Marketing: Turning Strangers into Friends, and Friends Into Customers” (available on

David Hurley is an Internet marketer who is based in Japan and is the owner of, which focuses on success mentoring for Internet marketing start-ups. Get your own work-from-home Internet business set up free and find out how you can build an online business and master the net.